Having a very hard time organizing myself around Christmas presents this year. Usually, the gathering is the present, but that's obviously not going to happen. Every time I try to think about Christmas, I just get sad, and I've been so slammed at work that I haven't had much chance to shop or plan anything this year. Afraid everything's going to be both a) lame and b) late. 2020 not letting up for even a minute on the way out.
@B I haven't figured out what I'm getting anyone for Christmas let alone organize buying it. I am so stressed. Love you all. Please don't worry about getting me my stuff on time, I think the logistics will be better if we just wait on shipping me things until after I am back from my trip
@B bro don't worry about it, I don't know if any of us will have things ready on time
@B just speaking for myself I think that all pressure and anxiety about presents should just be allowed to float out the door. We are going to make a big effort to zoom and connect over Christmas and that's the part that's a present for us.
We have a terrible time coming up with our own wish lists because we really can't think of anything we really want. Also, who says stuff has to arrive by Christmas? Isn't it always a happy thing to get a surprise? This has been a horrible year so let's not add to the misery by adding more pressure. Hopefully, this will be a "unique" Christmas so let's just relax any "rules"