@B just speaking for myself I think that all pressure and anxiety about presents should just be allowed to float out the door. We are going to make a big effort to zoom and connect over Christmas and that's the part that's a present for us.
We have a terrible time coming up with our own wish lists because we really can't think of anything we really want. Also, who says stuff has to arrive by Christmas? Isn't it always a happy thing to get a surprise? This has been a horrible year so let's not add to the misery by adding more pressure. Hopefully, this will be a "unique" Christmas so let's just relax any "rules"